Marriage is death!!
Calamity in my life has befallen again!!
ok, i tried to pen down my experience a lot of times:
I tried writing when i recieved the first gud news in my life after almost 3 years..that was when i got an admit in ISB.
I failed.
I tried again when i failed successfully as an entrepreneur.i failed.I tried again to express how it felt like to meet
my future isb classmates.Again i failed.
But now Calamity has struck me. I am sad.I am depressed.
Emotions are running so high in me now that this time i am successful; successful in penning my thoughts about
miss-happenings.
I have lost a friend.Its not a farce, its not a hope, its the truth- Truth of the moment, yet another friend falls victim to a social evil called marriage.
Caught in the woods,like a true "rajnikanth" i asked the power superior one day---
"Oh! almighty! why dont u restore "life" on this planet?? why do u hate peace so much??
And of all people why me??I know everyone asks u the same question??
I really like and respect my friends!Cant u leave us alone in our own small humble world called bachelorhood.
In this world, we dont take permission for running our livelyhood.we come home anytime, go to movies late in the nite,
comment on any girls.In short we control our own destiny"
But,when god appeared in front of me, the answer to me was so expressionlessly simple-No words needed.Just a glance was needed I realised that the god I was praying was a SHE!!!
No one will hear me now.I am afraid i know the inevitable--yes, marriage is inevitable.
I now feel sad thinking of kata's untimely demise, err...or is it marriage???
I am surprised my other friends are congratulating him,I dont know why??
Everyday morning we drink coffee.We know coffee is bad for health.If on an (n+1)th day this coffee is not given to us,
what do we ask??think about it....
"dont i have the freedom to drink what i want??" ---is it not what we ask???
Now think again, is it freedom?? or bondage?? a hindsight thought will reveal that this is bondage-our bondage for coffee. isnt it??
The same is happening here.Is marriage freedom or bondage??
Becoz of this evil called girl, we have learnt to celebrate bondage and suffer freedom.
My teacher was right-ramayana happened becoz of kaikeyi and sita.
Mahabharata happened becoz of draupadi's saree strip.
Trouble is brewing,The inevitable is happening.I cannot stop this.No one can.
kichi, dont be ready to jump on me.I know we are all in the sinking boat. All of us have to go.
But the choice for all of us(BC-please excuse) is when to jump out of the boat.
First it was NA the great, He is the most loving enemy i have had. sisya, i still love u eternally,so what if we fought for a girl,so what if u r dead now, or if u have a kid[even more deader] --do what u want!!I love u, when i think of u i think deeply that u r a nice person to be with! But Today, when NA is in US and i dont even know.Isnt he dead for me??
Now time has arrived for the second one,I know this is one of the saddest days in my life.
Imagine how U feel when u know a person is going to be killed brutally with a mangalsutra [means "man" is going to be "gal's" "sutra" -- leading to man-gal sutra] and i stand there helplessly with some corns of rice in my hand to give u..to drop it on ur head. Becoz from that moment u r not going to get any more corns on ur own.From now on u r never incharge of ur destiny.
Marriage is an agreement between god and girl--a chance for her to experiment with a "spare" destiny before she can shape her own destiny
There was a time when we used to celebrate each others birthday without miss,success of any soul in the group was each of us, we partied for everything.A foriegn tour used to be celebrated with so much aplomb.Its now being skipped..sure signs of boat going down....
Kata--U are going to be murdered.
I cant help.I express my deepest concern for u.
May your soul rest in peace.
give us ur last treat please
Coz after this, u will never have control over ur purse!!
All my fellow travellers on the sinking ship, Dont u agree with me that we need to get together for a rare moment of happiness?? Lets mourn kata's untimely demise with mine [mine - i mean my success]
Well, I have to end this mail here.End it with a small wish.God , If at all there is another birth for us,
Let us, i mean all our boyz, all be born together again, in a forest of infinite boundary either as dogs or gays --------
-----------but not as husbands!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok, i tried to pen down my experience a lot of times:
I tried writing when i recieved the first gud news in my life after almost 3 years..that was when i got an admit in ISB.
I failed.
I tried again when i failed successfully as an entrepreneur.i failed.I tried again to express how it felt like to meet
my future isb classmates.Again i failed.
But now Calamity has struck me. I am sad.I am depressed.
Emotions are running so high in me now that this time i am successful; successful in penning my thoughts about
miss-happenings.
I have lost a friend.Its not a farce, its not a hope, its the truth- Truth of the moment, yet another friend falls victim to a social evil called marriage.
Caught in the woods,like a true "rajnikanth" i asked the power superior one day---
"Oh! almighty! why dont u restore "life" on this planet?? why do u hate peace so much??
And of all people why me??I know everyone asks u the same question??
I really like and respect my friends!Cant u leave us alone in our own small humble world called bachelorhood.
In this world, we dont take permission for running our livelyhood.we come home anytime, go to movies late in the nite,
comment on any girls.In short we control our own destiny"
But,when god appeared in front of me, the answer to me was so expressionlessly simple-No words needed.Just a glance was needed I realised that the god I was praying was a SHE!!!
No one will hear me now.I am afraid i know the inevitable--yes, marriage is inevitable.
I now feel sad thinking of kata's untimely demise, err...or is it marriage???
I am surprised my other friends are congratulating him,I dont know why??
Everyday morning we drink coffee.We know coffee is bad for health.If on an (n+1)th day this coffee is not given to us,
what do we ask??think about it....
"dont i have the freedom to drink what i want??" ---is it not what we ask???
Now think again, is it freedom?? or bondage?? a hindsight thought will reveal that this is bondage-our bondage for coffee. isnt it??
The same is happening here.Is marriage freedom or bondage??
Becoz of this evil called girl, we have learnt to celebrate bondage and suffer freedom.
My teacher was right-ramayana happened becoz of kaikeyi and sita.
Mahabharata happened becoz of draupadi's saree strip.
Trouble is brewing,The inevitable is happening.I cannot stop this.No one can.
kichi, dont be ready to jump on me.I know we are all in the sinking boat. All of us have to go.
But the choice for all of us(BC-please excuse) is when to jump out of the boat.
First it was NA the great, He is the most loving enemy i have had. sisya, i still love u eternally,so what if we fought for a girl,so what if u r dead now, or if u have a kid[even more deader] --do what u want!!I love u, when i think of u i think deeply that u r a nice person to be with! But Today, when NA is in US and i dont even know.Isnt he dead for me??
Now time has arrived for the second one,I know this is one of the saddest days in my life.
Imagine how U feel when u know a person is going to be killed brutally with a mangalsutra [means "man" is going to be "gal's" "sutra" -- leading to man-gal sutra] and i stand there helplessly with some corns of rice in my hand to give u..to drop it on ur head. Becoz from that moment u r not going to get any more corns on ur own.From now on u r never incharge of ur destiny.
Marriage is an agreement between god and girl--a chance for her to experiment with a "spare" destiny before she can shape her own destiny
There was a time when we used to celebrate each others birthday without miss,success of any soul in the group was each of us, we partied for everything.A foriegn tour used to be celebrated with so much aplomb.Its now being skipped..sure signs of boat going down....
Kata--U are going to be murdered.
I cant help.I express my deepest concern for u.
May your soul rest in peace.
give us ur last treat please
Coz after this, u will never have control over ur purse!!
All my fellow travellers on the sinking ship, Dont u agree with me that we need to get together for a rare moment of happiness?? Lets mourn kata's untimely demise with mine [mine - i mean my success]
Well, I have to end this mail here.End it with a small wish.God , If at all there is another birth for us,
Let us, i mean all our boyz, all be born together again, in a forest of infinite boundary either as dogs or gays --------
-----------but not as husbands!!!!!!!!!!!!!
posted by Prashanth at 9:17 pm
0 Comments:
Post a Comment
<< Home